Remove the negative influences of others and your own self-defeating thoughts. Basically, get out of your own way to allow all the good things to happen!
Write your name on a piece of paper and place it under the candleholder. Before lighting the candle, pass it over your head body and under your feet. Whisper your name and your troubles to the candle. Light it and burn it every day until it is done.
A black midnight candle with a cleansing woodsy scent. 2 x 4 pillar burns for 40 hours. Remove all packaging before lighting and never leave a burning candle unattended.